Over the years, I’ve noticed that some of our members really don’t act
like members. They act like customers. They get in with specific goals,
get what they want, and get out. They don’t want to help run the place,
they just want to be customers!
Imagine what might happen if you walked into a retail shop and were
treated as a “member”. The people already there start asking you
questions about what they should inventory, what their opening hours
should be, whether so-and-so should be promoted to store manager!
Now, this might be something you really like, if it’s a store you feel
passionately about, and want to make a big part of your life (maybe
Apple Computer?). But for many, they just want to buy a package of
cookies and a carton of milk and get on with their life.
Apply this to Toastmasters. Some of our members don’t want to help run
the place, and that’s OK! Sure, make them aware of what they’re missing
out on, but don’t press on endlessly. They may not be our future
leaders (yet), but others will be.
When you talk to someone who’s just joined, ask them how involved they
want to be. Do they just want to work on some manual speeches, overcome
some verbal tics, gain some confidence speaking (customer), or do they
have an interest in helping run our organization, be a mentor or club
officer, learn leadership skills, and help others (member)?
We need to make sure we have what our customers need — speaking
opportunities, strong evaluations, opportunities for learning specific
skills, even contests. No matter how they join, ask what they’re
looking for. Match it up against our offerings. Be sure they know we
can help them with what they’re joining for, regardless of whether they
are a customer or a member.
In my experience, very few people join Toastmasters as a member — they
start as a customer (despite paying “membership dues”!), and then after a
few meetings, a few months, even a few years, once they find out all
that we offer, then they become “members”!
By the way, if you’re reading this, you’re probably a member, not just a customer!
We would be lost without those lifers, or even those willing to give
back as an organizational leader — but most of our members really just
want to come in and meet their immediate goals of becoming a better
speaker. While we can hope to convert them later, we’ll just scare them
off by trying to get them too committed too soon.
IMO, club meetings should be designed to attract customers, members are the residual effect of satisfied customers.
Bring in the customers and convert to members with this logic
Toastmasters will continue to be the premiere organization for
Leadership and Communication.
TMIKL (Toastmasters International Kuala Lumpur) #1997-51 is the oldest Toastmaster Club in District 51 (Peninsular Malaysia) Estd. 1st July 1978, is committed to providing a fun & supportive audience while practicing effective communication & leadership skills - meets twice a month normally on the second and fourth Tuesday at 19:00 at Floor 21 Menara Centara, Jalan Belia, Kuala Lumpur.
Friday, 16 March 2018
Sunday, 4 March 2018
Next Meeting 13-3-2018
Next Meeting
Tuesday 13 March 2018
Time: 19:25
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Meeting Location
Chair: Mohd Ehsan
TMD: Jeremy Teo
GE:
Project Speakers:
Ismail Omar Visionary Communications Level 1 #Ice Breaker
Waihong Chin Innovative Planning Level 1 Research&
Tuesday 13 March 2018
Time: 19:25
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Meeting Location
Chair: Mohd Ehsan
TMD: Jeremy Teo
GE:
Project Speakers:
Ismail Omar Visionary Communications Level 1 #Ice Breaker
Waihong Chin Innovative Planning Level 1 Research&
Saturday, 10 February 2018
Next Meeting Tuesday 27-02-2018
Next Meeting
Tuesday 27 February 2018
Time: 19:25
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TMIKL Meeting Location Menara Centara Level 21
Chair: Mohd Ehsan
TMD: Jeremy Teo
GE:
Project Speakers:
Speech Evaluators:
Grammarian: Richard Toh
AH Counter: Nik Zaki
Timer: Ismail Omar
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Tuesday 27 February 2018
Time: 19:25
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TMIKL Meeting Location Menara Centara Level 21
Chair: Mohd Ehsan
TMD: Jeremy Teo
GE:
Project Speakers:
- Ismail Omar Visionary Communications Level 1 #Ice Breaker
- Waihong Chin Innovative Planning Level 1 Research
- Shaheen J Syed Leadership Development #1 Ice Breaker
Speech Evaluators:
- Richard Toh
- Mohd Ehsan
- Rhoda Omar
Grammarian: Richard Toh
AH Counter: Nik Zaki
Timer: Ismail Omar
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Monday, 22 January 2018
Next Meeting Saturday 27 January 2018
Next Meeting
Saturday 27 January 2018
Time: 09:15 TMIKL Meeting
Location Menara Centara Level 21
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Chair: Rhoda Omar
TMD: Rhoda Omar
GE: Jeremy Teo
Project Speakers:
- Cyril Jonas
- Ng Swee Weng
- Waihong Chin
- Mohd Ehsan
- Lim Yikang
Speech Evaluators:
- Mohd Ehsan
- Rhoda Omar
- Cyril Jonas
- Richard Toh
- Jeremy Teo
Grammarian: Richard Toh
AH Counter: Nik Zaki
Timer:Ismail Omar
Wednesday, 6 December 2017
Next Meeting 12-12-17
Next Meeting
Tuesday 12 Dec 2017
Chair: Rhoda Omar
TME: Wai Hong Chin
GE: Mei Lin Ong
Educational: Jeremy Teo
Evaluate to Motivate
Project Speeches:
Speech Evaluators:
AH Counter: May Ong
Tuesday 12 Dec 2017
Chair: Rhoda Omar
TME: Wai Hong Chin
GE: Mei Lin Ong
Educational: Jeremy Teo
Evaluate to Motivate
Project Speeches:
- Calvin Lim
- Shaheen J Syed
- Wai Hong Chin
- Cyril Jonas
Speech Evaluators:
- Victor Ong
- Aida Ang
- Mohd Ehsan
- Richard Toh
AH Counter: May Ong
Thursday, 30 November 2017
Saturday, 18 November 2017
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